Serving: To give of yourself, your time, tallents and energy in a way that benefits others at an expense to yourself.

 Here i am vs there you are mentality

1 Cor 12:7 in NLT: A spiritual gift is given to each of us so we can help each other.

Mark 10:45 For even the Son of Man did not come to be served, but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many.”